Saturday 4 October 2014

And all you can do is try...

                When life gives you lemons,  make lemonade. And what if the lemons are all dried up? What if you squeeze and squeeze and squeeze more but no juice comes out? What then? Should you just sit back and keep collecting the lemons or should you let life throw more and try each one of them with the hope that at least one will give some juice? Or should you wait for life to get tired of pestering you and find a new target?
                Problems will come. And you have to face them. There is no way out. The manner in which you face them is left to you. You can battle them with your armor on or get tortured and beg for mercy. You can be brave and help others as well or be tame and keep hiding.  But life would not be impressed by your valor, it would still keep whipping you with all its might. And all you could do is bear the thrashing or catch hold of the whip and strike back.
                To see the long and short of it, life will throw innumerable lemons or for that matter rotten eggs as well and you can either dodge them or put them to good use. Because you do not have an option to choose , you do not get to choose your problems , the timing of your problems or the intensity of your problems. So all you can do is stand upright against them and face them like a strong rigid wall. And if life got so overconfident as to give you a follow on like the once mighty Australians gave the Indians, you could still fight and beat them with your centuries and double centuries. So much so that it would have to think twice before giving you another follow on for a long long time. The only way out is to stay strong, have self belief and faith in yourself to come out of the big mess you are in. Come on, after all you have to  start somewhere even when you start cleaning your room. You  need to be calm and composed and focused because  to come out of the cage life has pushed you in before getting eaten up.
                Its all about self belief, courage and willingness to do something for yourself. For it is you and only you who can make your days bright or your nights gloomy. It is you who decide how to lead your life. Taking the whipping or thrashing back. Coming out untouched or bruised. Fighting your case or having no defense. It is you who have to throw all the problems coming running towards you out of the ring and emerge the winner of the royal rumble organized by life.

 Life is a mighty force. Cruel and unforgiving. To come out against it is like  clearing six backlogs in one go. Difficult but not impossible. No assured results but all you can do is try.